I am around. I continue to read your post, but haven't had a whole lot to say. I'm so sorry that you and your children are apart of this ride. I also sorry that your wife is apart of it. I always wondered what it was like for my H while we where having problems, and today I can say that if it's hard for us, Its twice as hard for them. Think about it, every day having to look in the mirror at the decisions one has made and the hurt one has caused.

In Alberta we have an AA meeting, and they provide C for those with addictions and for the families. Is there any programs around you that can help you get through this?

I suggest learning as much as you can on the drinking disease. Intervention may be something that is needed. Is there anyone that your W trusts who could help you out on this issue? Someone she'll listen to?

Hang in there. I'm thinking about. I did post my update over in piecing. By the way... 4 more weeks till I'm no longer fat and pregnant!!!! I'm getting so excited to meet my new little man.

PLW

I saved my marriage and so can you....Its all about positive thinking...