Thanks WWB, I really did not take her advice as being inspiring, I just took it as a different view in the situation. It’s kind of gets to the chicken or the egg argument; is the alcoholism creating these issues or are the issues leading to the alcoholism. It really does not make any difference except that she and I can never reconcile until she admits the problem and does something about it. Just one more f***** obstacle that I have to overcome. This just sucks!
In reading my sitch, this is not a “Tipple” issue. (Hell, WWB, next time you’re in the states call me and we’ll have a tipple together!) This is serious morning, noon, night, and hiding issue. You are absolutely right that any suggestion by me would just p*ss her off more and hurt the sitch. As my C said yesterday, I have to give this one to God and hope that she hits bottom soon and safely.
Regardless, I am still planning on going to the “after the last resort technique” on December 1 if nothing changes by then, including of course my mind. At that time, I will tell her that we are completely done and shut off all contact.
Anyway, thanks for your post, and keep them coming!
