Sorry to SahDaddy and Burg....not trying P.O. anybody, its just a sour subject with me and should have kept that opinion to my self. I put up with 3 separate affairs with my wife one before marriage and two after and often felt that if I had just stopped conflict avoiding I could have stopped it sooner. Ironic thing is that we divorced after the last and 4-5 months later got back and been back almost 5 years. Her being a military wife wasn't easy and now we are fine. Everyone has to find their own way...again sorry!!
