Burgbud & WB, thanks for the input. I think you are both correct. Golly WB, you and my sitch really do have a lot in common. And Burg, I saw one of your other responses today on another sitch, are you doing o.k.? Seriously, let me know. I think we all know about stress, (most effective weight loss program in the world, huh?) Anyway, I will get all the finances together and write the note I talked about and get them to W next week. If money issues end up causing us to D, then I really don’t want her back anyway, know what I mean?
Beside that, how about a little journaling:
Tonight was kids’ back to school night. W emailed me this morning and asked me if I was going. I am the school “Historian” so I am supposed to go to these functions and take photographs. I responded that I was. But, had no idea if she was or not.
I got there and she was in fact there. She had the kids tonight so she must have either gotten a sitter or OM was there. (I know, I shouldn’t assume that.) She was also sporting a new fancy bracelet, again, OM? (As an aside, my W’s love language is gifts, and I have never failed to shower her with them!)
We spoke only briefly as I was hanging with some other school parents that she no longer likes. She no longer likes them because when she told them last May that she was leaving me they thought she was insane and basically told her so. Oh well, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
She did not hang out for the classroom talks, but asked me to. I left very depressed. I really miss her and I continue to pray that we can turn this around.
As always, any support or advice would be greatly appreciated.
