I made money one of the issues in my head when I walked. I was making good money but it just seemed to be going into a black hole (my H did all the $$ too). One of the things I thought would be better about living alone was that I'd have more money ...
She knows in her heart that she is spending as much as anyone and she knows she abdicated her responsibility to you so she is responsible for that ... just give it all to her and let her make a judgement.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
