Fighter The death of a parent is a big thing to WAW. My trouble started after the death of W's father. A old boy friend came to the funeral. Six months later she satarted EA by mailing him a birthday card. I was able to keep it an EA by calling his W. But didn't deal with the situation in the way to make it better. W is probably a serial cheater. Has had other EA's and in all probablity PA's. I still get blamed for not letting her be there for her mom and greive her father after the death. Stupid me, I wanted to get her away from the pain and bring her back home with the 4kids. Should have went home with the kids and left her there. But should of's don't count.