WB, It is worth a fortune. I am detaching and getting a life, so far without another woman. I do have to say though, I have pretty much made up my mind to keep this strategy going until December 1. At that time, if nothing has changed, I will send WAW a letter stating my itentions of going completely dark, no friendship, no communication except for kids issues, etc. Our D will be final in mid February if things keep going this route. That will give her 2 1/2 mos to think if that is what she really wants. (The fact that it is the holidays come in to play as well.
And to be honest, and you may not understand this, but I love this WAW so much, that the thought of merely standing by as a friend or acquaintance for the rest of our lives, well, I am just not that strong.
Granted, many things can happen between now and then. I'll juts have to wait and see.