Thanks all of you. Here I've been patting myself on the back for doing such a good job over the last month and I go and throw it all away in one outburst.

I called her home machine today and said, "I'm sorry we had a rough time last night. I know how hard the kids can be to deal with alone. Anyway, I hope your trip back was good and I'll be here if you need to talk."

She called from the AP (not yet home) and said that "we need to talk tomorrow." What I need is a good response for when she says she is going to file. I.E., "Do you think that will make you happier?" or is that bad. Keep in mind she's said that before a couple of times and didn't follow through. One of these times, she will. Any suggestions???