WAW, Been there, done that, bought the T shirt. As I see it you've got little leeway and little time. Here's a list of To Do's: 1. Anger management. Read 2. Re-read DB or DR 3. Write down objectives with small wins 4. Go dark, give her time and space. She's not likely to want to talk with an angry person like you. 5. Read Rick Warren's "Purpose Driven Life." 6. Pray, really pray not for god to listen to you but for you to listen to God. Good Luck