Kids called me today from the vac that W took them on (same one we went on two years ago as a family!) They were whiny when my W got on the line and started accusing me of turning them against her. When I asked what she meant, she went on a diatribe of me being in the house, me doing this, me doing that, I'm sure you have all heard it before. And of course, everything is my fault.
Well, I blew it. I yelled that she was the one f***ing another man, she was the one who moved out, and she was the one who was destroying our family. I then hung up on her. I have done so well over the last several weeks and I just threw it all away.
She called back and said that she now thinks she whould go ahead and file this week cause it seems that we're done. I told her I was sorry for blowing up, but I simply lost my temper (Which I rarely do). She went on with more acussatory statements toward me and that was it.
She has said she would file before and she never has. I am hoping that this was just one of her incidents and it shall pass.
