W recently confided to me that OM was “pressuring her.” I at first assumed that he was pressuring her to file for divorce from me. My C on the other hand thinks that a guy who fools around w/ a married woman wouldn’t give a damn if she was divorced or not. C seems to think that he has moved on from the “all attentive new love” to the “I want more from you.”
I am also fairly confident that W is now probably lying to OM about her activities with me. Pittman talks about this as a very good sign. Is this another phase?
Both Glass and Pittman talk about phases that husbands and wives go through after the discovery of the affair. I guess I’m looking for information on phases that the spouse and OP go through so I can start watching for them.
Any ideas or other resources? Thanks fellow DBers!
