Quote: "Be ready if she distances from you, because that is very common."
GG- my God, are you psychic??? She already did. She dropped the kids’ suitcase off at the house this morning and saw that I had installed some lights in the front yard. She called later and left a tearful message asking why I didn’t do that before when she asked. Later on the phone she went back into the same mantra about not wanting to be married, etc etc. She emailed me a rather venomous letter about getting her own house, living her own life, and that she wish she had started a long time ago.
I was somewhat expecting this. I figured that she would realize that she liked being with me last night and her guilt defenses would kick into overdrive. I am standing back, and trying to realize that this too shall pass, I HOPE!
