I know for a fact that she is confused. She spoke with a good friend recently and was in tears most of the time repeating, "I have no idea what I'm doing." I am trying to be her friend and trying to remember that she is probably hurting a hell of a lot more that I am, and that is a lot!
I believe I am looking healthier and tanner then the last time I saw her, and was wearing some different style of clothes that she is used to seeing me in. Maybe these 180s are making an impression!
Regarding her changing, I know she is seeing the OM and his daughters more frequently. Believe it or not, I like that. The more time they spend together, to faster the illusion will disintegrate, and hopefully, the EA will end. Also, I wonder if she will tell him that she is spending this time with me. I have read that one of the first signs of the EA ending is when the WA started lying to the OP about their activities with their spouse.
