Found out from S7 that OM and Ds spent night at Ws apt with my kids there, and that they were all going to Disneyland together. I blew it and got P****d off which turned into another 45 min discussion about our R in which all she does is repeat the same mantra of what has been wrong for 6 months, or 18 months, or seven years, (depending on whatever mood she's in.)
Last night she left a long VM saying that she had talked to the kids and that she was trying not to lie anymore and yada yada yada. She did say that she would give everything to have things perfect like they were years ago, and that she was thinking about me and cared a ton about me, but can't go back to the way things were.
Today when we spoke I thanked her for her message and complimented her on her actions. I then went on to calmly reiterate that I desired that she did not take the kids to DL w/OM, that I just felt that gave them the wrong impression. She replied that she had already decided not to go; but that they were going to stay in separate rooms, and did I think she was an idiot? I told her of course not, that I knew she only had the kids’ best interest at heart, and so on. By the time our conversation ended, she was p***ed at me.
Did I blow it? Or did I just maybe make her think a little of her actions and she was more mad at herself.
As an aside, I actually took the Romantic Infidelity article and have listed in chronological order the sacrifices she had made including honesty, health, marriage, home, friends, kid's well being, and the list will get longer, I have no doubt.
Feedback, suggestions, criticisms? Please let me know.
