The funny thing is, PL, that a few weeks ago W told me that she was still actively seeing OM, and that she didn't want to lie to me anymore about her whereabouts. Since then, however, when she tells me she is going to go out of town, or do something special, she has never mentioned him. So she is still lying. In a funny way, I guess that's kind of good. She still is concerned about my feelings and she obviously feels very guilty about the EA.