Quote: She mentions she is going out of town next weekend, (I don not ask, but I'm sure it's w/ OM
Stop thinking about him!!!!!!! AND DON"T ASSUME!!!!!! Unless she comes out and tells you that she's with him, don't let it come close to entering your mind. Try seeing a stop sign in your head everytime the thought of OM enters. As soon as you start to tear up, see the stop sign. Try not to feed her the negative energy. See the stop sign, take a deep breath and think about something else. At night go to bed and ask god to give her the strengh to come home and you the strengh to hold your chin up. I did it everynight... I haven't done so much praying in all of my life. But it worked.
This is corny, but...
A chinese friend of mine in Jr high told me once that when you wear a necklace, everytime the clasp is down by your chest, it means someone is thinking about you.
All day long I find my clasp down by my chest and it gives me a nice sense that someone is thinking about me. I kiss it while no one is watching, and tell my H I love him.
Whether there is any truth in that or not, it gets me through the day. I guess what I'm trying to say, is find someway to get your sitch out of your head. Find something that will work for you, so you won't feel sorry about yourself. Something to make you walk taller. And follow your intuition.
Instead of hating Sundays, look forward to the peace. Make it a day for you. A day to do house work, met with friends, take up a hobby, whatever so you don't think about them, and feel bad for yourself.
Life is hard enough with out us making it harder on ourselves.
I saved my marriage and so can you....Its all about positive thinking...