Hi pipeliners_wife
Great advice that i need to use myself. One question though...my H seems to be more focused on OW, her wants,needs, what shes doing, feeling, its all about her...how do i get him to focus on me, marriage, our 3 kids? Is GAL which would be a huge 180 for me and detaching what will turn him to face inward towards his family and marriage? My post is trying to deal with OW for 8 months if youd like to read and give me any advice.

Sorry for intruding on your post WAWfighter just had a burning question. Don't know what advice to offer you myself as im new to all of this too. I do know that i've read alot of sitches on here and you can get lots of great advice so i guess my advice is...keep positive and read and ask any questions here cuz we are all going through similar sitches and there's great advice here for all of us. You may even find a WAW that can give you some insite on what turned things around...you just never know but at least coming here lets you feel youre not alone and that others know and understand your feelings which has also helped me tremendously.

SBS