If you continue working on DRing, then you will come out a winner. I saved my M. My H moved out March 20 this year, and a few weeks later I found out he was seeing OW. This past weekend he has come home to work on the relationship and marriage. We have known each other for 10 years, m for 3. We have a D2, and I am expecting in Oct.
It takes alot of patients, and alot of hard work. The best thing you could do is detach, GAL and keep positive. I am a firm believer that the mind is a powerful tool. I use to go to bed everynight thinking about my future with my H, and praying god would give me the strengh to move forward and H the strengh to come home, and it worked.
Be there for your W to validate her feelings. Detaching will allow her the space she needs to figure out what it is she is looking for. Take the chance to work on yourself and to do the 180 that is needed.
My new thread is Marriage Saved under newcomers if your interested in reading my rollercoaster stories.
Keep your chin up! PLW
I saved my marriage and so can you....Its all about positive thinking...
