Hi Jean, I'm fairly new here to DBing. You're actually further ahead then me since you've already read the book. It sounds like you are doing things right. The one thing I can tell you for sure is that you have to get yourself straight and together for YOU! And at the same time, somewhat for him to. Once you go on living with your life, he will hopefully realize what it is he's missing not being with you. Get a new hair do or something just for you because you can.
I don't have much good stuff to add, but just wanted to welcome you and let you know that you are not alone. I hope things work out for you and your husband.
