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There is some of this too. I just posted earlier today on the Rottzs thread, NG is into QT in a big way, and if I can just curb my energy and simply 'be' with him, wonderful things happen. Its an adjustment, I used to be the type that needed to get through 20 things a day to feel like its been a good day Slowing down has been good for me, and the R.



This describes my R to a tee. Once I was able to accept just hanging out on the sofa (when I wanted to be cleaning, running errands, anything active!) as a way to express love to h, well, as Slowly said...great things happen!

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.