Hi Slowly - Sounds like you and NG had a productive weekend on more than 1 front

Was NG very romantic before the A? Are you wanting him to act like he did previously or is this new romantic behaviour you would like to see?

Do you think his love tank is running low and that is why he's not being romantic? What are his LL? For me, my H is big AOS so when I go on a big cleaning sprint he seems to give me the QT I desire. Gee, maybe I should have been decluttering this weekend too?!

Your goals sound great Any ideas about how to make NG feel more comfortable about opening up and discussing his family? What has worked before?


According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."