Hugs to you! Isn't it unbelievably hard when they say something off the cuff that just zings at you? For me it's always something that's so darned resonating of "that time" and I think part of my reaction is because HE just doesn't hear it.
You say (and I know) that you've done a great job deflecting these types of things. One slip up isn't gonna bum you (either of you) out for long.
On a semi similar topic -- has anyone been watching "Six Feet Under"? There's been an infidelity theme this season and the WAS just gave the LBS "the talk" (complete with "it's never been right -- you know that" which is word for word what I heard) this past week. UGH. It's been torture sitting and watching it.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Isn't it unbelievably hard when they say something off the cuff that just zings at you? For me it's always something that's so darned resonating of "that time" and I think part of my reaction is because HE just doesn't hear it.
