Hi - I've been lurking, strangely reluctant to post on my own thread. Things are well here, NG is caught up in a nightmare project at work, but is still incredibly sweet and considerate at home. I have my moments, and appear to be better equipped at handling them. I can see NG's problems, and am comfortable not owning those.

To be honest, I think he is more worried than I am right now. I seem to be so different from a couple of years ago, and he is not sure how to deal with the new slowly. The changes we so small, and so gradual, that by the time it dawned on him, I was 90 (not quite 180) degrees away.

My biggest thing is that I find I like myself more than I ever did. Perhaps more than I like anyone else It may be dbing, it may be what we all get to in our early 40s. Either way, I'm having a blast

I do want to keep working on this though. Its time to pop by the KLA discussion, and some old friends.

Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time