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Some of this feels like going back to basics - observing what I'm uncomfortable about, deciding what outcome I'd like, and then developing a solution (do nothing, or ask NG to do something very specific). Someone keep reminding me of this OK?

Slowly




Sure!

I think it's great that you went deeper and looked at what was really the same and what wasn't. It's easy (I know!) to paint everything with the same broad strokes of "then". For me part of it is that my memory is faulty -- what happened first, what happened next, when were the first "signs", etc....so that when I start to get an inkling of "same old, same old" it's easier (but more painful) to just throw up my hands and say "we're on the fast track to crappiness again" than it is to really look and see (I do eventually get there, though).

I noticed in my Palm Pilot (tm) that it's nearly time for me to re-read DR. How 'bout you?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.