Hi Hopeful - Trust is such a big issue for me. I was never one to trust folks easily anyway, and NG's a has just knocked me back even more
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So giving you advice I am trying to take- act as if, distract yourself and show H that you are placing your trust in him.

Distracting myself is what works, and strangely, also knowing that NG did burn his bridges with ow - during my rational moments I can reason that even if NG was to contact her, she would probably not entertain him.

The problems are when I'm NOT rational But I have to say, they are fewer, and farther apart. Seems like one can recover from betrayal, it just takes so darned long

Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time