Hi Jennifer - As always, the points that are not so obvious
Quote: So what are you doing to thought-stop, to stay with trusting NG, to keep your anxiety yours and not project it onto him? Is he being sensitive to you regarding his destination? IOW, is he saying/doing anything that shows you he is aware and sensitive?
Thought stopping is a LOT easier now than it was a year ago - maybe I'm becoming more confident in my judgement, and it tells me NG is no longer with ow. I'm also a LOT more adept at not projecting my anxieties, not just with NG but with family, friends and even colleagues - such amazing dividends from dbing
NG unfortunately is not giving an inch in terms of what I might need. He does not acknowledge that this could be difficult, or reassure in any way at all. I suspect he may feel that would be pandering to me His dealings with his family suggest that it is important to him not to be seen to 'give in' - often I wonder how much of that played into just how long the a took to end.
His dealings with his family suggest that it is important to him not to be seen to 'give in' - often I wonder how much of that played into just how long the a took to end.
