What we are both experiencing these days reminds me of a newborn baby animal... It's like we are trying to learn how to walk all over again. It's a little awkward... We stumble a bit... Things we are used to doing and sharing with our H's, we don't do anymore... It is scary and unfamilar but at the same time, I think it is good to be alone right now. Being alone allows us to re-discover ourselves... It can be a place of great personal growth and knowledge about ourselves. I know that I have had to reintroduce myself to the "new Kim" in a way that is unlike what I have been used to. But, in the end it WILL provide the both of us with a much more peaceful life.
I would be lying if I said that I did not feel moments of hurt, sadnes, and even embarrassment b/c my marriage failed; however, I know that I am a strong woman and I will get through this without becoming the "victim". So, JV... when things get complicated or unclear for you and your sitch... Try to ask yourself: "What needs to happen so I can re-find my true happiness?"... I once read on another thread that "The Best Revenge is Living Well"... That is so true... Thinking of you, JV... Hoping you are having a wonderful weekend! Talk with you soon... -KIM
