Quote: I feel like such a failure. I couldn't keep my H happy or my M together. Geez, I guess I'm just feeling really sorry for myself.
May I be frank? (Frank might have a problem with that), Seriously JV,
I've been following your story for months now and let me tell you, YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE! Now I know you still love your husband so I hope I don't piss you off but, looking from 400 miles to the south, he's the failure. I can't believe the way he has treated you over the past few months. A failure?, hell you're a SAINT for putting up the fight this long.
Hey, if it all works out down the road and you are happy, fantastic. But JV, someone like you deserves better. Again, maybe it's anti-DB talk but actually, isn't DBing ultimately done to make yourself a better person? If the wayward spouse sees it, that is gravy.
JV, I've got to say that I've seen the events of this day coming for a while and I ain't sh** but I think it just might be for the best.
You're stronger than you think JV!! Now go turn Leno on, you need a smile!!
