So sorry to hear that you are struggling these past couple of weeks... You seem to be noticing that when you see or speak with your H that he appears to be "moody" lately... IMHO, you need to tell yourself that he IS moody because a VERY important relationship is not working out right now... His relationship with YOU! JV... he is bound to be depressed and especially because there is probably a part of him that thinks he has made a HUGE mistake and is too proud to admit to it. He IS going to be cranky, hurt, and frustrated and be grieving your seperation even though he is the one who walked away and moved out of the house. Try to let your H grieve without taking it too personally. I think you know that all of the negative stuff he does say to you is a bunch of bull$hit anyway! Hang in there, JV... Thinking of you, -KIM
