Glad to hear that the interaction with your H was pleasant! I think that it is very important that if you and your H end up trying to work things out after your seperation, that you both continue to do loving things everyday and not take each other for granted. It seems that the couples who have the hardest time staying on track are the ones who think being right is more important than being happy together. Also, if you do get back "on track" with your marriage, be sure to keep the lines of communication open! I strongly believe that successful couples have to learn how to communicate around their differences constructively. Hopefully after your seperation ends, your H will also be able to take a kinder and more supportive approach to your differences. IMHO... if your marriage is going to improve, you need to be clear about what you want to be different in your marriage, so that when the time is right, the two of you can work on it together. Both of you can then be more careful and thoughtful about how you treat one another.
Thank you for responding on my post the other night! The Beck concert was GREAT and DMF is ALOT of fun! I now believe more than ever that his wife is CRAZY for letting him go! I actually think the woman needs to get her head examined.
JV... Hope you are having a WONDERFUL weekend! Enjoy some well-deserved "JV time" while your children are with your parents! Hope to talk with you again soon! -OC Kim
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