As I mentioned in an earlier post, my sisters and I are getting together this weekend at T's house in Paso Robles then we're heading off to her timeshare near the beach.
At first I was planning on taking the boys with me, but now when I think of it and knowing that H isn't working this weekend, I want to ask him if he would mind watching all 3 of them for that time.
It really bothers me that I have had to ASK if he would watch his own children, but.....oh well. My sisters say to tell H that I have plans and he needs to watch them -- plain and simple, but I don't think that would go over too well with H .
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Ok. H just called and I asked what his plans were for this weekend. He doesn't have to work like I thought he didn't, so I asked, "I was wondering if you would be willing to watch all the boys for the whole weekend," then there was dead silence......and someone was calling on the other line. H said it was (STBX-boss), he needed to talk with him, so he would talk to me when he got here in about an hour.....H sounded irritable after I asked him.
I hope he will. I really could use some time with just adults for a couple of days. I'll take the kids with me if I have to, but I just thought this would be a nice time to have for me. A very much needed break from everything.
I'll be back later to let you all know what H says.
Thanks for listening.
JV
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
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