JV I have the same problem with my H. I'm not exactly sure what LL he is but I'm starting to lean toward AOS as well. I find that when I'm not doing as much around the house (aka things that H can SEE I've done) he seems distant and withdrawn. Of course I could still be wrong Maybe he's just a mish mash of all of them.

I've been keeping up with your thread but haven't posted. You seem to be getting lots of good advice and lots of help so I'll just sit in the cheering section if that's ok.

And for what it's worth.....maybe listen to your head, your heart AND your gut. Take a little from each and I'll bet it all comes together. You know your H best JV. Good luck!

Cheers, Scottisheart