Quote: You look so f***ing miserable. What can I do right now to make you happy?"
I looked at him and said, "Nothing. Why don't you just please leave me alone?
Somewhere I've read that the worst thing for a marriage is for a man to feel like he can't make his wife happy - that this is one of the biggest triggers that drive men into affairs. Remember the dog-training adage - reward the good behaviors, ignore the bad ones? It's okay to tell him exactly what you want (and he seems to have been responding to that yesterday) but make sure you reward him when he does.