Quote: Your H has already shown you that he didn't really mean all those alien things he said. He's hurting and as motivated right now as he'll likely ever be to change.
Ellie,
I can see exactly your concern here. Please understand that I am not saying that JV should revel in his "misery" or be mean to him, but we don't know that "he really didn't mean all those alien things he said." There's a chance that he's just scrambling and begging and pleading and pursuing, just to get her back. In other words doing all the things we did when our WAS's took off.
I just want JV to be careful. You know it was only a couple of weeks ago that her H was name calling and being very mean, so I think it may be too quick to think he's completely changed.
