Quote: I don't know, but I thought a S meant that you don't come over and hang around and call all day, everyday.
Quote: I WANT SPACE, and I thought that's what H wanted, too, but he is acting otherwise
JV, I'm sorry is this JV?,
Woman you have come a long way. I tease you about your epic posts, but I know that deep down, that is your therapy. And if that is what you need to do to feel better, then I'll read them 'til George W. Bush balances the budget!! .
JV, I'm not cheering the fact that your marriage is unhinged, and I'd never be thrilled with the split-up (even if temporary) of your home, but I am so proud of you right now. You stood up finally for JV. You are the one putting her foot down. JV, I know it seems hard, maybe even wrong right now but you have grown because of it.
When I started reading your story months ago it was all about your H doing whatever he wants and you frankly were unsure of what to do and how to handle him. Over time, you have built up this, this strength, and now it is showing.
I know there might be some out here that think I'm pro-you guys splitting. I'M NOT. I'm pro JV becoming a stronger JV and that is simply what I see. I apologize for being honest folks but I can almost hear confidence creeping in to your writings JV.
OK, I'm on your thread so I naturally am writing a long post. Oh well, you know what they say, "When in Rome..."
JV, have a great night and let those calls go to VoiceMail. Isn't VM a wonderful invention?!
