Hi JV. I think your new subject line is perfect! It's time that JV took care of JV!
I'm so impressed with the way you are handling your sitch. It's incredibly hard to know what is right and wrong. You are inspiring all of us and we know you can do this! It will take time though for your H to truly see what is at stake and that your R can't continue on it's current path. Unfortunately, a couple of days isn't going to resolve all of the issues.
Be strong JV. It'll all work itself out and you'll be so much happier having done what is right for you and your kids. I sincerely hope that your M will come out of this stronger and balanced.
