Trying to find MY way to happiness

[ValerieA]

I have made up my mind, and I AM going to my sister's tomorrow. I'll tell H when he brings the boys home.

This has been so difficult, but my mom is right. H wanted out, and now he has to know exactly what that means. He needs to taste what it's really like, and so do I.

I can't always give H what HE wants or I'll never get what I want -- a better H.

I won't turn him down every time he wants to do something, but I have to set a boundary here, and I have to do it now.

I want this M to be a whole lot better, I want to be a whole lot better, and if that's going to happen, then things have to change, and it all starts with me.

Trying to be strong.

JV

"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."