Hmm... an act of self love. I like that!! It's amazing how much better things are when I get to skip picking him up from work. I'm going to ask him to drive separately from now on. We can always go to dinner after MC to have some time alone.
I cut back on doing so much for him this weekend. I was probably going overboard and I resented it. I didn't worry about what he was thinking, or how I could make him happy this weekend. I just relaxed and let him take care of me. If I needed something, I asked for it.. a biggy .. I'm pretty independent. And, instead of devoting all my attention to him and what he wanted to do, I spent more time with the kids and asked him to join us. We had a fun weekend.. everyone was relaxed and happy. Today, I'm focusing on our good weekend and how far we've come in the last month and a half instead of worrying about him being at work with OW. It's hard! but it makes for a better day for me.
