I have just a minute to post, but I wanted to recommend the book "The 5 Love Languages" to you. From what you posted, I really think you'd benefit from it. And if you're husband is receptive, you might ask him to read it with you. Right now, it sounds as if you and your H are having trouble showing love in the way the other needs to receive it. This book is mentioned a lot around these boards and is a great supplement to DB/DR/
