I thought most therapists were in therapy. To help them process all the negativity that they hear every day. How odd. I know my friend goes off on seminares etc and continues to work on being self actualized. It sounds like your husband is prideful.
I am not sure about the talking. I think I would have loves my husband to just talk truthfully with me like that. Only you know what will work for the two of you.
I understand how difficult it is to deal with someone who refuses to address their "stuff" I am not sure about your husband, but in my husband's case, I think therapy would be about changing and he doesn't see a need to change anything. He intends to continue taking prescription drugs, smoking and keeping secrets.
Sounds like you are doing great handling everything. desdamona
Arguing with reality is like trying to teach a cat to bark—hopeless. (Byron Katie)
