Everyone's giving you great advice -- kml in particular! I'm out of my league here so I won't offer much...I guess the only thing I'd say is getting h professional help will be a far quicker path than trying to do assessments, etc, yourself.
Isn't h a therapist or a doctor of some kind?
Sage
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