Deb, a few months ago my sister kinda went through this type of depression episode. She called me crying and said she couldn't function cuz she was feeling so bad. I called her doctor told them what was going on and they made an appointment for her that day. I told my sis she was going and picked her up and took her in. She is also a gun owner and the doc said get the guns out--she even called that night to make sure they were out. Don't know if you can be that aggressive with your H but it might be worth a try to just set everything up and take him in.
