oh yeah, a couple of other comments H made last night/this morning: that ow "told me I had to choose and now she is furious that I chose you and is out to cause as much trouble as she can for as long as she can".
and
"Last year when we (our family) went on vacation she told me "if you ever do that again I will hurt you" and that is exactly what she is doing, making good on that. She was setting me up by coming on so excited and friendly when I got back and got my hopes all up to thinking "well maybe this will be ok, we can be friends" and she just did that to blow me away with all this other crap"
Also, this morning H was saying how upsetting her contacts are, and I said, trying to not be too controlling/motherly, "what would happen if when there is a contact you find out is not work related you just end it right then and there?...and he came walking into the room saying "i've decided I'm going to instruct A (secretary) not to accept anymore calls. I cant think of anything at all that can't be handled by email". so, we shall see. I wish he would do that. OR run all correspondence through her supervisor.
H also talked last night about how he failed the woman who died, how bad he feels, and how it is just tearing him apart dealing with all these people for so many years just to watch them die. Said that he has a "gift" for knowing how things are going to turn out and another client is going to be dead within 2 years, he just knows it.
Said how when the one male co-worker he was close to, it left such a void in his life (the one who called the other day)...and that is how she got her foot in the door, that's when she (monster) really moved in. H started crying and said "I thought she was my friend, I just needed a friend, and then she started to make love to me and it was so horrible"....I'm not sure what to think, seems like denying his responsibility, but obviously he was caught off guard.
Talked about how much he misses the other male co-worker who left more recently, how he was such a wise and holy man and such a blessing, and he needs him and misses him.
