I know dfb, I know. I am really worried about H...not sure how much to push at the moment. I'll share an email in a minute that may clarify that statement. He is in so much pain, I find it hard to comprehend, but I have no doubt it's very real.
I have never been afraid he would hurt us, he has never made any kind of allusion to that...but then most people I suppose arent thinking of that who do get hurt. Still, it's tricky. He seems to be very slowly opening up to outside input....he may snap back the other way if I push too hard, but yet dismissing it isn't wise.
