Would there be any chance of either of them changing jobs? I hate to say it but if they are still working together, they would still be seeing each other, and still have to talk to each other. There are still some common ground. Think you could subtly manouvre your H to find another job elsewhere? Just a thought. Many ppl have said that it's all in the mind of the WAS, that if the WAS is strong in the mind, then they could end all thoughts about OP in their minds and they need not need to find another job. But I doubt there are many ppl who can control their mind that well. If they could, they wouldn't have gotten into their sitch with the OP in the first place. I am saying it from the point of my sitch, please don't take it the wrong way. I see my H would never ever be able to really break it off with the OW when they have work together yadda yadda yadda. He is just does NOT have that strong a mind. So, this moving to Country X of his would be good in a way. He doesn't see me, doesn't see her. So it's more level playing field. If he continues to work with her, she would have the advantage - I think.
