I had a thread a long time ago. yes, I was separated for over a year and dealt with all that entails. My H and I reconciled almost a year ago. things are good, but we do have our days! I heard all the same things everyone does from the Walkaways. the pain was unbearable! My H still has strong denial that the "friend" and "work partner" got any further than flirting. But there was inappropriateness of their relationship and he does admit that. I don't thing there was a PA, but strong suspicion of EA. Either way, hard to deal with. So I feel your pain and hope you find peace soon in your sitch.
there you will find lots of inspiration and ideas. a much more pleasant place to spend on-line time. sometimes this place is so darn depressing. even thought my sitch is resolved, it still stings to read the heartache that many are still going thru. sometimes I post when I can't help myself and think I might can shed some light of experience on someone who looks lost!
