Guessed I am as excited as Slowly for your post-vacation update.
My H is still talking about OW and her family, about how he can't stand her father blah blah blah. But he also talks about him NOT returning to our marital home that he will miss it blah blah blah. My H told me that he had tried to break off with OW many many times and yet return to her not long after. Hopefully, his moving to Country X will lessen the things that he feels he can talk to her. I have come to the point whereby I feel that there is nothing much I can do except to let him go and hope and pray that he will see the light and return to me. He has got his stuff packed up ready for his "leaving" end of the month. (Sorry for the hijack)
Give us your update and insights of what works and what does not!