Deb - Is it true that when the A is dying, WAS will tend to tell you more about the OW? My H is talking alot about OW these days. How incompatible they are, how different her family background is from ours etc etc? And he would say "the fact that I am telling you all this means we (as in he and I) are okay". I know the ending of an A is difficult for the WAS but how long would they need to get over their withdrawal? Your H seems to be "withdrawing" somewhat as he seems to be still talking about OW. When did the A end?
