Deb don't stop working out, if it helps your PMA, stick with it. From a guys view, I would rather have a PMA Wife in better shape than a little top real estate. I think you can find ways to show him how that is a good thing. Just keeping working on making your R a happier place and sooner or later the old problems will fade away. Focus more on the future. Don't keep throwing up reflections of the past, don't put that distraction in front of him. Take and keep him focused on happier places.