Deb - I see your sitch has been improving lots. I am a little green with envy. Your H telling you that you guys need to go on a date and all, to reconnect etc. It's really really good. Wonder if I could dream about this happening to me...
I did read a little bit about MLC...was a bit scared about the part that it ranges from 2 - 5 years. I am trying to recollect when was the time that this could have started... H changed job about 18 months ago from one that he had been for 9 years. He felt that he needed change... Now, he is getting back to his "old" job with the new job that he is getting in a foreign country. So, I wonder if the "MLC" started about 20 months ago? Then perhaps I have about 4 months to go?? We have not talked about OW (I've not brought it up, and neither has he) for a while (acting as-if there is no OW in our lives...) so, I don't know what's happened between them. They did go to the work seminar away... I guessed I just have to thought-STOP whenever OW pops up and continue with my as-if attitude. I will consult you again on any good advice when I feel my sitch has changed to a different level ...hopefully to a better one.
